James Turco |
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How did I get from Long Island to
Lititz you want to know?
First of all---
WAKING UP IS A
GOOD THING!
"Worry looks
around, sorry looks back, and faith looks up" I
guess at 68 it's more than likely the latter that is questioned!
I’m still working
part time 5 days a week at a private school--love it. We always have someone
visiting with 6 daughters and 15 grand kids. Got to keep working to buy
presents. Health is fine (maybe not mentally but never was). Try to say hello
to past friends now and then if I have their e-mails. Hi Naomi and Richie.
Think of Wheatly school a lot and feel sometimes I
left a bad impression?
I was originally
married to Phyllis Rosanski and we lived out in East
Setauket L.I. We had 3 beautiful daughter together. My business was located in Old Westbury, which was a 50 mile trip on the L. I. E. and a 2 hr creep every
morning. I did this for 5 years and one morning on the way into work as I
was creeping along and counting the dead animals along side the road--a thought
came to me that there must be a better way to spend ones life than sitting on a
road for an average of 1 month a year.
I sold my house
and business and we moved down to a little town in Pa. Lancaster Pa
back in 1970 was and still is to some extent a Norman Rockwell type
town. Amish farming abounds and a simple way of life meets the psyche
with a kiss. I opened a rental yard, which I ran for 20 years.
After we were settled in a few years my wife Phyllis felt she needed
space to grow and to find herself so we divorced. I
retained custody of my girls and remarried within a year to my
present wife who also was divorced and had 3 girls the same ages as my 3
girls. So 36 years ago 3 and 3 became 6 and life blessed us with multiple
old age stories and memories.
In 1991 we sold my
business and my wife's yarn and needlecraft shop and house.
We decided since
all the girls were on their own, and we had that empty
nest syndrome going on in our lives, that we would move to Fla. That we did and loved it for a while. We lived in
Sarasota and enjoyed life until we realized that our girls back north were
having families of their own growing and we were missing that. Yearly
visits were not enough to fill the void that was growing in our
lives. My job I had was exciting and our days and nights were good
until Renee started to lose her sight. She found out she had a genetic
eye disease that medically could not be helped. She reeducated herself to
adapt to her lot in life. She excelled in braille and cane mobility as well as cooking and life in general. She greeted
this new challenge so well that for a time she taught braille and helped at the light house as a mentor. With
her vision diminishing and the grand kids and daughters up north we both
decided after 10 years in Florida to move back "home"! I quit
my job and we sold the house so that we both might be able to lock back into
what we had been missing the last 10 years while Renee was still able to see
the beautiful faces of our loved ones, while she was able to, up close.
So in 2001 we moved home. I am employed in maintenance at a private
school and decided 6 years ago to work part time so we could spend more time
together.
Life has been
interesting and rewarding --at times. Owning my own business for 30 something
years was a good lesson in the "American Way"!
We don't seen to
travel much since my wife lost her sight but do travel to Sarasota Florida to
visit kin where I lived for 10 years. Our home now, which has always been for
my kids, wife and myself is our little town of Lititz, PA. It is located in the county of Lancaster and we boast the first and
only ongoing pretzel factory in the USA. We are also home to the Wilbur
Chocolate factory, which wakes us each morning with the aroma of melting
chocolate (what suffering!). We have a large population of gentle Amish farms
and people and their way of life is refreshing to see.
I have no plans of
ever moving from this Eden of my present life. I will greet each day as if it
is my last and will keep in touch with those who want to say "HI".
Jimmy |